A Village Mediation
While reviewing a legal aid program in Bangladesh 25 years ago, I visited a mediation between two families in the middle of a small town’s evening market. The issue in dispute was whether and how much the 17-year-old husband’s clan should compensate that of the 16-year-old wife for throwing her out of its household.
An all-male group of village elders presided over the literally and figuratively steaming session as the families traded barbs. Dozens of other local men, most having no connection to the session beyond being busybodies, shouted their unsolicited opinions. With the debate raging around her, the girl sat speechless and cowering in the middle of the marketplace, the only female in likely the last place on earth she wanted to be.
Such is justice in parts of rural Bangladesh and in too many other countries where courts are too distant, expensive, corrupt and incomprehensible to be turned to and where traditional processes predominate. Because of poor educations and poor parents who cannot support them beyond childhood, young girls’ status straddles property and liability. Many are typically married off while barely out of adolescence.
Subsequent Moviefilm
Which brings me to Borat. Or more specifically, to Borat Subsequent Moviefilm: Delivery of Prodigious Bribe to American Regime for Make Benefit Once Glorious Nation of Kazakhstan, the recently released sequel to comedian Sasha Baron Cohen’s 2006 original Borat film.
I found the film funny, better than its predecessor and a scorching commentary on Trump’s America and supporters. But that’s not my focus here.
Instead, I’ll address Borat and the status of women, as discordant as that combination of words may seem. The satire shines a harsh light on their situation around the world. But it also is upbeat in some surprising ways. (Warning: minor spoilers ahead.)
Tutar and the Prison of the Mind
The title character is now too easily recognized to dupe Americans as he did in 2006. So Baron Cohen makes Borat’s 15-year-old daughter Tutar (played brilliantly and hilariously by 24-year-old Bulgarian actress Maria Bakalova) a central focus of the story. At its outset, she’s ill-kempt and ill-fed, caged and considered the equivalent of livestock.
This is where, intentionally or not, Baron Cohen and Bakalova start to say so much about the actual condition of women in much of the world. Tutar is just as much property and liability as the Bangladeshi girl, though the Bangladeshi lacks the literal cage.
Tutar and that girl share a powerful prison of the mind. They’ve been taught – in Tutar’s case, with an official manual that Borat regularly cites – that they don’t deserve anything better than their fates. She’s thrilled when she learns she’ll have a large cage to herself and then when she’s allowed to sleep on the floor at the foot of the father’s bed.
The real life equivalent is not that far from Borat Subsequent Moviefilm’s sardonic mark. Research in Bangladesh, like in numerous other countries, indicates that many men and women alike consider it acceptable for a man to beat his wife for serving dinner late, talking back to him or committing other supposed transgressions.
I’m not at all suggesting that the women welcome such brutality. But some see it as their lot in life.
The sequel also reminded me of the many other limits women are taught and told to accept. During a break from a rural paralegal training session years ago in the Philippines – paralegals are non-lawyers who help their communities deal with land, family, labor and other issues – I chatted with an obviously intelligent female trainee. Despite the aptitude she’d shown during the session, the trainee informed me that she doubted she could take on the work because she was “just a simple housewife.”
Various Kinds of Oppression
And then there are the many cases where the imprisonment blends some combination of the physical, psychological, economic and cultural. Tutar accepted that Borat would give her as a gift to Vice President Pence. Poverty, brute force and societal indifference toward sex trafficking insidiously trap millions of young women and girls in exploitive and violent situations, including in America.
Thankfully, even in its extreme depiction of Tutar’s plight, the movie does not explore anything like female infanticide or the honor killings of innocent women whose conduct or circumstances affront their families.
An irony of Borat Subsequent Moviefilm flows from Baron Cohen’s rushing it to release shortly before our election. He could not anticipate the additional respect in which his timing was right: Our most misogynist president has just appointed a Supreme Court justice, perhaps a prisoner of her own orientation, who could ensure the curtailment of women’s reproductive and other rights. The film’s two themes – Trump’s America and Tutar’s situation – have come together in ways that Baron Cohen could not have anticipated.
A Tale of Two Tutars
But the story does not end there. Believe it or not – this is, after all, a Borat film – the sequel gradually segues into a tale of Tutar’s empowerment. Republican matrons inform her that women have equal rights and that, yes, men lie. To his amazement, Borat is assured that women have equal rights in America by, of all people, male QAnon conspiracy theorists.
Along with Tutar, the heroes of the film are two women featured in a couple of touching scenes. One of them immeasurably aids Tutar’s transformation from de facto slave to self-possessed person.
Now, having said all this, I don’t want to depict the sequel as any less gross than the original Borat movie. (My wife passed on viewing it, having found the original so offensive that she muttered to me, “Makes me wonder who I’m with” after I took her to see the original.) Nor is it any less manipulative of the folks it fools into participating, including the two heroic women I’ve just mentioned. Finally, to be clear, it is anything but a feminist manifesto.
Women to the Rescue
Still, in its own bizarre way, Borat Subsequent Moviefilm exemplifies both how far women have come and how far they need to go across the globe, 25 years since Hillary Clinton declared “women’s rights are human rights” at a global women’s conference in Beijing – around the same time I saw that Bangladeshi girl huddled in that hostile marketplace. Tutar is an over-the-top character in an over-the-top film. But her initial plight in the movie is grounded in reality.
As is her growth over the course of her travels through America. Despite the ills I’ve portrayed here and the setbacks our own society faces, women around the world have made significant progress over the past quarter-century in terms of their rights, education, incomes and health, not least because of nongovernmental organizations that conduct programs and provide services in these and other fields.
That includes Bangladesh. Returning to the countryside in subsequent years since 1995, I saw many examples of mediation sessions in which many more women assertively participated, including as substitutes for the male village elders who had traditionally dominated such forums. As one such elder put it to me, “Women are coming up in the world.” A variety of legal aid and women’s groups have helped usher in these and other changes.
One key lesson that America and the world remain far from learning is that, just as women’s rights are human rights, women’s strength is society’s strength. A plethora of studies show that enhancing women’s equality can yield massive economic, health and other benefits for women, men and children alike.
This has implications in the United States as well. If our democracy is saved by the upcoming election, one big reason will be because women, far more than men, are turning out to turn a demagogue out of office.
If Tutar were a real person, they would make her proud.
Richard I Knapp says
Chuck, great blog — liked name, graphics, content, voice.
Special kudos for the new Borat critique. I watched it, and laughed so hard I sprained my conscious, as they say.
I learned a lot from you in your piece — it didn’t register with me the degree to which Tutor’s debased, self -imprisonment was so real throughout the world for woman. I found the Black woman who took her in very moving, as you said. Who was other supportive person?– it slipped my mind.
Packers-49ers on Thursday, but I’ve got to say, we have other fish to fry then, right?
Best, Lloyd
Stephen Golub says
A belated thanks!
The other heroic woman was the holocaust survivor who welcomed the incredibly and ridiculously anti-semitic Borat with warmth and a hug. Sadly, she died before the film was released. A written statement at the close of the film honors her.
Mauri says
Welcome back, to A Promised Land! I look forward to reading your insightful analyses, Steve. Like Lloyd, I liked the Borat piece especially and appreciate your making the case that the daughter’s degraded conditions and powerless status are actually very real for so many women. Your warning about the threat of potentially disqualified absentee ballots because so many voters were new to them… scary! (Texas is another state with that envelope inside an envelope thing and in the primary I failed to sign the outer envelope and it was sent back to me.)
Stephen Golub says
Thanks very much!
Kathy Ryan says
I had to laugh at your wife’s comment when you took her to see the first Borat movie. I saw it with a date who was highly educated and successful, and it made me wonder the same thing about him, who I no longer date. I was so disgusted by the first film that I have avoided the second, although your information may mean that there is redeeming value.
I love your title of “ America as a Developing Country”. So true. Americans are arrogant, thinking that America is so advanced. I had a 40 year “ career” as a dental hygienist, and I enjoy sharing the truths with younger women, and men about how things were, and why, to make them think about now and how slippery the slope is for us to lose our rights. I see women’s rights as an extension of every kind of equality issue, overlapping with the other “ isms” like racism, and the economic truths of women’s labor expected to be free like slavery or undervalued with unequal pay.
As a naive 18 year old who was the first in my family with the opportunity for a college education, I was steered to dental hygiene by an uncle who was a dentist telling me that it was a “ good job for a woman”. Of course, I wasn’t aware that each state has a “ Dental Law” that controls the work done by dental hygienists. The laws were all originally written by white male dentists, the only ones we had in this country. These laws have remained basically unchanged. Only dentists can own a dental business. And dental hygienists must work for licensed dentists. They cannot open an independent dental hygiene practice, even to refer to licensed dentists. Until recently, dentists only hired part-time dental hygienists, often more than one part-time. Of course, since dental hygienists are female, this was offered as an attractive benefit, in order to be able to be home with children. Of course, because these employees were part-time, they were not offered actual benefits like sick days, vacation time, insurance or retirement benefits. These typical female jobs were controlled by the male owners, with no opportunity for advancement because the only way to advance was to become a dentist. We were used as profit centers ( providers of services).
To be certain, there are not any tears shed for suffering dental hygienists in the world of abused women, but if educated, licensed healthcare professionals can have systemically unfair work conditions and pay, then what chance is there for less educated women? Whenever my patients and I got in to a conversation about my job, they were always astonished to learn that I never had a paid sick day or vacation day or any other benefit until the last 10 years I worked.
The strongest, most powerful people in a society have the responsibility to change the rules to protect those with the least power.
The pandemic is proving the value of women’s work to society.